You have given me the courage to continue to protect my marriage and children. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. Your opportunities may not. The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. It's like talking to a wall. I think she felt that it was important for me to understand the types of challenges in an interfaith marriage. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church:.
The church will be in your bedroom, finances, and all your decisions. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. I'm on mobile and it isn't letting me post the URL. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. If they believe their religion, they will ultimately cause you pain and disappointment.
This makes them overwhelmingly successful wives and mothers. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple. You should take all of the above advice to heart and follow it just in case, so you can make a smooth transition should it ever be necessary. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. I would not fear as much as she does, but that is her reality. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x.
Take the crazy and add a ton of even crazier shit on on top and Your girlfriend literally believes in a book of scripture that was produced from a rock in Josephs Hat. It is soooo difficult to cope. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. I have been a doctor's wife for almost 2 years - and we have been together for about 7 years, since right before intern year. This is crunch time and years worth of effort are on the line for him.